What precaution do you recommend to limit the current going threw the mosfet ?
The most basic electronics device. Hint: It has a constant relation between voltage and current.
what mosfet do you recommend me to use for this purpose ?
Why a MOSFET at all? Why no relay, optocoupler, BJT...
But OK, let´s look for a MOSFET.
There are only two different types of MOSFET: N-CH and P-CH. Both have the internal body diodes.
Let´s try the N-Ch one: The only possible way (for S, D) is D to GND and S to Negative_Supp(else the diode becomes conductive)
Then you need to drive the gate HIGHer than Source to make it ON. Higher than Negative_Supp.
This can´t be done with your SHDN signal connected to G, because it would make the MOSFET ON as soon as the supply goes negative.
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Let´s try the P-Ch:
Here you need to connect S to GND and D to Negative_Supp.
Now you need to make the gate more Negative with respect to S. Negative with respect to GND.
This also does not work with your SHDN signal ... it never becomes negative.
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None of the single MOSFET does work.
That´s why FvM recommended: "and a level shifter to drive it."
Klaus