Your scope probes at 10X have a specified Cload.
You can decouple that with a series R from probe tip to xtal test point. Then the
effective Cprobeloading =
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Of course your amplitude response is affected, but if all you care about is freq measurement....
The above transform equivalency often used in impedance matching circuit design, RF.
Or use a FET probe.....
Also low cost scopes are not exactly high precision frequency measurement devices in terms of drift,
accuracy, repeatability......
Also use scope on infinite persistence, AC coupled, say 100 mV / box, and look at power supply rail noise.
Might be an eye opener.
Google "rtc xtal pcb layout", that can be quite instructive.
Capacitor ESR considerations (power supply bypassing effectiveness) :
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Regards, Dana.