2 Ohm is a typical difference between simulations and experiment. Actually, it is very good. The connector is real and made of real components with real shape. and all those oxide layers, dielectric nonuniformities, etc. so, of course after design and simulation, the real technology is tweaked, which is not reflected in datasheets.
If you prepare to some experiment, tweak the dielectric to get the best results. simulate it with excessive precision first at designated frequency to be sure.
BTW. Some SMA connectors are really not high frequency. so those dielectric parameters can be actual on 10MHz, not 5 GHz. Check this. On 10 GHz and above just rare SMA connectors achieve passport performance. Use K/2.92 connectors.
Oh, and double-check your transmission line with rectangular waveport. See help for integration line and Z estimation method reference.