It is not a good idea to connect voltage regulators such as 78XX in parallel ..
Adding equalizing resistors or diodes will always deteriorate the output voltage regulation ..
However, if you would like to experiment - here is an example .. see picture below ..
Much better idea is to add an external PNP power transistor .. **broken link removed**
78XX-in-parallel is not really a good regulator. If the current is not constant, the output voltage will change up to few huhndreds millivolts because of the diodes voltage drop.
I think you can dissipate most of the power on simple resistor before the regulator, which will limit the current and make some local feedback (with the voltage drop of the regulator ) and thus equalize the currents.
Connect two of theese in paralel, when the R is:
Lets say max current is 2.8A, voltage drop of the regulator 0.2V, the R will be (12-5.2)/2.8 =2.4Ohm
If you want to achieve high current by doing parallel connection, I think it is better to shift to a switching regulator which has a 5A above current rating.. this would have better response. Linear tech have a lot of this kind of regulators...