Until one of them starts to develop contact resistance, and
then current-sharing goes out the window (maybe this will
lead the other to "catch up", but maybe not). Similarly if the
actuation is mismatched in time, you might not get the
sharing you'd hope, and one takes the inrush current / turnoff arc
punishment while the other takes it easy.
You'd have to ask the mfr for overstress life test data, and
prepare for disappointment (customers used to pester me to
follow them down their rabbit-hole and tell them violating
abs max / rec max conditions was OK; but do it once, and
why have ratings at all?).
Hard to believe there's not one suitable 25A relay out there.
Maybe you are now looking for "contactors", but still - the
job is getting done, somehow.