Here are a bunch of comments.
The totem pole PFC can be seen as an inverter or full bridge class-D run backwards. Lots of references for these applications are applicable.
Note that the total leakage charge isn't vastly different. You have to charge the common mode C (Ccm) to Vout_dm (your term, I'll call it Vpfc) instead of Vac rectified. Separately the current will come in large pulses at the zero crossing for the totem pole. Is one, the other or both your main concern?
In terms of control I see three major options.
1) The 'standard' asymetric totem pole pfc control scheme
2) Two high frequency half-bridges but only use one at a time: each 'draws' a half wave while the other shorts its low-side fet.
3) What I think you're proposing: Run both half bridges all the time in a class-D style complimentary fashion which has zero common mode component
Pros/Cons for above
1) Cheaper fets and you don't need filtering on the LF leg. 1X switching loss. Big slug of CM current
2) Needs filtering on both legs. Should have similar common current profile to standard boost PFC. 1X switching loss
3) No common mode component but 2X switching loss. 2X switching voltage is presented to filter. But two half-bridges can be interleaved.
All of these are common for different applications but I haven't seen 2 or 3 referenced for PFC designs. Have you considered buying any totem pole demo boards. Transphorm, Gan Systems, Ti etc make them.
https://www.digikey.com/products/en?WT.z_cid=sp_1707_buynow&v=1707&mpart=TDTTP2500P100-KIT
Other ideas I've toyed around with:
-The LF leg can be soft switched to reduce the CM current slug
-The LF leg could be eliminated entirely: AC couple instead