You might do better with a copper lug, gray goop and mechanical compression.
Aluminum can be OA welded I've read. The aluminum soldering rods you see advertised are a Mg/Al low MP alloy that can get you by with propane. There are copper-phosphorus rods for HVAC work that also melt low (lower than plain Cu) and maybe you want to play around with trying to get a Cu/Al in situ alloy "puddle" that you can make a full copper layer on top, to solder.
One last option might be to try copper spot plating in a KOH electrolyte, which should strip native oxide while allowing copper to plate on. Might see if Caswell has a handy kit.