I'm aware of only your first suggestion, especially if it's a continous time circuit.
Two resistors across the output will require a current if the differential output is nonzero, and, in an OTA, they will lower the voltage gain; therefore, they're typically taken as large as possible. The large R, combined with the input capacitance of the commom-mode amplifier (typically a gate capacitance), adds a pole to the CMFB loop. Adding a capacitor across the large R introduces a zero that can be used to prevent instability / have higher ugbw (= speed up). At high frequencies the transfer from circuit outputs to CM amp gate is just a capacitive divider now..
Hope this helps,