(just standard sized through hole stuff, no smt or anything)
There's no reason to stay away from SMT parts for prototyping purposes. For example: suppose you make a PCB at home, and you include a resistor somewhere. Using through-hole resistor, your PCB needs 2 holes drilled, and when soldering you have to bend wires, cut to length, insert in holes & solder. With SMT resistor just 2 small pads (in a pinch you can solder SMT resistor across a track if there's room), 0 holes to drill, put SMT part in place, hold down, tiny bit of solder on one side, then other side, done. Replacing with another value is just as easy.
Some SMT parts like PLCC are also pretty easy to hand-solder (with a bit of practice).
Basically: do what works best for you - but don't avoid SMT parts just because it's small &
looks difficult to work with...
If digital logic is your cup of tea, have a look at CPLD or FPGA development boards. Totally different ballpark, but can be very, very useful when used in the right places.
And you might consider having PCBs made by a 3rd party. Relatively expensive especially for one-offs, but for complex designs (or something you build a small series of) it may just be worth it. The pro's are much better at producing circuit boards than you are... :wink: (and depending on how good you are with PCB design software, potentially a great timesaver too). There's many PCB producers to choose from.