First of all, I should have mentioned that I a retired software weenie, who only knows enough about hardware to hurt myself!
That said I was (am) pretty proud of the layout even if it is on stripboard, as it is very clean and the intention is to add #14 copper wire (didn't figure it was neccessary with a few hundred mA) to the ground and the track joining the two FETS, the gate lines are short ...
Regardless, the point I can't figure out is that I measure the drop on the FET, i.e. between the source and the drain. To clarify and add to my response to FvM, I have the scope triggered on a pwm signal. I look at the trace for the source (gnd) with the probe connected to the FET's pin and it is "exactly" gnd with some noise at the transitions, then I connect the probe to the FET's drain pin and observe the 300mv difference. Even if the layout was lacking I would see the ground lift (fall?) on the source pin.
I was inclined to think along FvM's lines, i.e. some measurement error though the efficiency is only around 80% and I expected much better from a synchronous design.
I can't imagine why I should measure (see) expected behaviour for the high side FET and not the low side as it is the same signal that switches from 10V to -300mv.
It's as if the FET has higher (much) impedance in the reverse direction as I have already tested it is the same dc on resistance.
Much thanks for the ideas, it will turn out to be something dumb (I hope), at this point I don't really know how to test, tweak the board to figure it out
mike