The primary simulation of Envelope Modulator (for Envelope Tracking Power Amplifier) is always done with a fixed resistor as the dynamic resistance of PA and it's normally around 5-10 Ohm.
1) How may I find that approximate resistance to be assumed as the load of the Envelope Modulator? Is there any calculation, measurement, ...?
No, when biased near compression, Vdd/Idd should be quite nonlinear. At the very least, you want a load impedance equal to the slope resistance, which is not Vdd/Idd. A good simulation should use a nonlinear load derived from measurements of the PA under many operating conditions.