Thanks, ayk, in the 1 tran forward, when the primary fet switches off, there is on path for the primary magnetizing current to discharge, (consider there is no clamp) so the reset winding is needed.
Though it cannot possibly be perfectly well coupled with the primary. As such, it cannot reset all that flux supplied into the core from the primary coil.
Good point about leakage, this is another problem, and does need some clamping....typically if N(reset) = N(pri) then the leakage reset will be usually made to occur above 2 x vin.....so a TVS style clamp would be useful to burn up the leakage energy.