In proteus, the time is spot on (flashes for 3secs, then the 3rd LED is on for 10secs), but on my acutal circuit, the whole sequance is over in a few secs.
I think thats somthing i have to sort out in proteus.
I'm going to change all my "pause 100" into "1000" and that should be it.
Its not a good idea to solder and re solder the IC many times. I would recommend an IC base. It would prevent the IC from being exposed to the soldering heat many times.
yes Kannan.k is right you should use an ic socket which are cheap or get a zif socket or use in circuit programmg(ICSP).Repeated soldering and desoldering will destroy that chip pretty quickly