Thanks, i kind of see the analogy with an isolated gate driver.
So it seems that this "auxiliary" source connection is not actually directly connected to the normal "Power" source connection of the NFET.
Regarding this meaning that the sudden power current pulse (when fet turns on) in the source_sense resistor and "power" source inductance makes the gate kind of turn more off in response to it...some would say that that is a good thing as it kind of reduces EMC problems. (makes the turn on di/dt less harsh) ...so not sure if 4 term fet is such a great advantage here?
Regarding the advantage of "no obliteration of source sense signal", again, i see the advantage, but many would say that controller LEB feature solves this anyway.
So it kind of looks to me that the main advantage of 4 term fet is in PFC, where near the mains peak, the duty cycle may get vary low, and so having a good source sense signal (due to the 4 term fet) is a great advantage......But having said that, most CCM PFCs use a ground situated sense resistor anyway...so its irrelevant for them. BCM PFCs use a source sense resistor, but they have pretty well zero turn on loss anyway as they start from zero current.
So 4 term fets seem "nice to have" but often possibly "not worth the extra cost"?