View attachment 188443OD/ID=3.33 is correct.
The 0.18 mm pin has nothing to do with the interior impedance/dimensions.
1 mm and 0.3 mm has nothing to do with the PCB impedance.
The pin over PCB on your selected connector is 0.18 mm D x 0.8 mm L.
It is this 0.18 mm circular shape that is pressed against the top layer #1 of your PCB as showed in my previous comment.
Your job is to match the edge feed impedance to the 0.18 mm pin and clamp ground return up < 18 GHz