even if the mismatch is less than that, the sot23 soon gets above the 100mW dissipation level with mildly different vf strings, so I am very surprised to see such a circuit as this ti.com one.
That mismatch could well happen as you allude. If the RHS string is lower voltage than the LHS string, then the RHS BJT will stand off more voltage and get hotter, thus its vbe will be less for a given Ic.
So thermal runaway works against us, even though the emitter degeneration tends to work for us.
Thanks for the nxp link , though they are all small packages, -smaller than sot23