I presume that zero crossing detection won't be a problem, but transferring the analog voltage isn't that easy. Different solutions are possible, you'll need to specify intended accuracy, bandwidth, acceptable input current, board space, costs for a qualified trade-off.
Some points in your considerations are self-contradictory, however. If you think about digitizing the input voltage, you'll have some kind of primary power supply and other solutions like analog optocouplers with linearization would apply as well. All in all it's a matter of input current and board space.
Some points are missing an explanation, e.g. "can't use transformer". Is the problem about transformer size (it's variable, in fact) , or something else?