I'm not sure if you already fully understand what you're doing. The ALD210808 is a very expensive precision device. However, in your circuit, all precision is created by the sensing resistor and the sense amplifier. The ALD's excellent matching and DC specs - except maybe for leakage current - are completely irrelevant for your application. Besides that, the array will complicate the pcb layout and the high Rdson may limit the maximum current through the load. Don't worry (yet) about the mosfet capacitance. You can probably easily get it right up to several tens of kHz. If possible, switch to almost any other very cheap small mosfet.
Since you're already aware of possible stability issues, I'ld suggest you gain a better understanding of the loop gain, poles and zeros before starting the simulation. There are many places in the circuit where a capacitor or resistor could be added and the simulation does not tell you directly which is the best.
Also, don't forget the impact of load impedance on the mosfet Cgd. You might wish to use a mosfet that comes with a decent spice model.