Gosh - answering a very old thread here. Please allow that even in the original post, I had to kind of imagine what layout he was working with.
You can use varactors in place of capacitors. The only "extra" bit that involves is to find some way to add in the bias voltage, which alters the capacitance.
Normally we are talking about
one varactor. If by some chance you need to have more than one, all in parallel, which was what the original post was about, it may be possible to use just one common bias voltage for all of them.
In the original posting, the core of the question was about ESR and capacitors in parallel. He did not make the context clear. There is a world of difference if we are talking about (say) a switchmode power supply stack compared to (say) a set of several capacitors to decouple a microwave active device.
Introducing the bias voltage is done via a high impedance. This can be simply a high value resistor, or in a more elaborate circuit, an inductive track, possibly quarter-wave long, or a straightforward inductance as RF choke, with the high value resistance at the back of it.
A trick to measure the varactor capacitance is is to put a known inductance across it, and find the resonant frequency where a output develops across it.
Alternatively, put a known inductance in series with a varactor across a signal path, and find the frequency which makes the signal line collapse, as in get short-circuited by the combination. In simulation, this would make S21 of the signal line show a dip. S11 would also show a near total reflection.
The capacitance is then discovered using the well-known formula F0=1/(2*pi()*(sqrt(LC) ) see
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LC_circuit.
If necessary, you may have to take into account any stray capacitances, and self-capacitances of the inductance to add to the capacitance supplied by the varactor(s), unless the strays are very small in comparison.
Of course, you can just look at the varactor data sheet, and get the capacitance for a given bias voltage, though what you get when you build it may not quite agree.