using a fet as a resistor
Hi,
So you seem to need a floating (=ground independent) controllable resistor to replace R3 in your filter circuit. Although there are research papers on MOSFET based voltage controlled floating resistor circuits, they need additional auxilary circuits and rather complex, now I would suggest using optocouplers with FET output like the H11F1 type (see data sheet link
http://www.fairchildsemi.com/ds/H1/H11F1.pdf and its Page 6 for applications) or there is a Canadian firm making so called resistive optocouplers, see
http://www.silonex.com/ and an application here:
**broken link removed**
Finally here is a practical circuit you can use without any further problem in place of your R3:
http://www.zetetics.com/bj/papers/phd/appxa.pdf and go to the very last page, 15, where you can see the H11F1 optoFET is shunted with optional Rp resistor, and also an Rs optional resistor is connected in series with it, these two resistors make the resistance change more linear and can restrict/trim the from-to range of the resistance change as is appropiate in your filter.
This circuit as you can see works for a 0-5V control voltage but you said having +/-4V, you can use the 0-4V positive part of it only. And of course you do not need the relay at the output, you can directly include the two legs (pin 6 of the optofet and the upper leg of Rs) in place of your R3.
You can use the silonex resistive optocouplers in the same control circuit like the H11F1.
Hopefully these are of help for you and solve you original problem.
unkarc
Added after 29 minutes:
sec said:
Yes, you got all right. Here is my circuit. What I mean by the voltage change is, the signal in input will pass into the fet. The signal is near zero so it will be under the Vref
I want to change the resistance of R3
You do not need to worry about the signal level because it is some tens or max a few hundred mV at the input of your filter and the gate control voltage of a FET is in the range of a few Volts, and if this is not so and you have a Volt input voltage there is the resistance R1 in series at the input of your lowpass filter, forming a voltage divider with R3, so further reducing input voltage no real interaction can develope. And using an optoFET this problem is solved.
Basically what circuits I have just showed you in the links they all can be viewed as a refined versions of that of Gundam001, also commented by Eugen_E.
unkarc