it's not that the charge is negative or positive, the charge will aways want to go to ground. The device choice is if you are placing in an nwel or substrate.
The diode size is usually the default size, as small as possible.
Antenna errors can also be resolved without using diodes, the charge is an accumulation on the gate because of a long wire, normally on a lower metal such as met1/2 etc.
A simple solution is the connected the gate at a higher (highest) metal so that during fabrication the top metal is the last to connect to the gate, it only needs to be a short distance of a few microns .eg GATE POLY metal1>via1>met2>Via3>met3, upto high metal ie 5 for a few microns then back down to a lower metal such as met2 or met3, I can add a picture if I get time...