vfone: Toonafishy explanation is just simple defination for pulling and pushing figure. To better understand the effect of both figure in actual case, let say you are designing a PLL frequency synthesizer with VCO, the effect will take place (as what I have explained earlier). This is why designer always put 10-20 dB of attenuator (match to 50ohm) right after VCO to ensure VCO does not "pulled" if load is not 50ohm, followed by and buffer amplifier to provide sufficient isolation.