difination of double balanced mixer
To get the best performance, the IF port should see a very broadband match. The IF port wants to see 50 ohms even out of the band of interest. This is done with a diplexer. The RF port just needs a good match over the RF band, its not important out of band. The LO port is the least critical. You just have to have a good enough match to transfer the LO power into the mixer.
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RF -> 50ohm amp ->filter-> mixer -> diplexer ->50ohm amp -> filter ->IF
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If you need image rejection, then you need to put a filter before the mixer that passes the band of interest but rejects the image band. If the LO power is not high enough, then you would need the amp between the LO and the mixer. If you need adjacent channel selectivity, then you need the filter after the mixer that passes the wanted channel but rejects the unwanted channel.