To solve it:
Lump port use for internal port:
-you can change the port to lumped port if you need to make internal port like your model. you can see a link below
https://hfss13.blogspot.com/2012/05/lumped-ports.html
or
-Wave port use for external port;
you need to revise the air model by make the air box over the substrate and make the wave port at external side.
https://hfss13.blogspot.com/2012/05/wave-port-boundary-conditions.html
some link may help you:
https://www.edaboard.com/threads/116727/
for my suggestion
1. you should revise the air model, make the air model above substrate and apply the wave port.
2. reduce the the model size (cut the left side and right side) to get the small model that help you to reduce time for simulation
3. the resistor value , you should select the standard value.
4. please carefully design the phase of each port that should be same phase.