Send the back of proto!!!
It seems VPP/MCLR is connected into the PIN2 of mcu!!!
Lapse of memory: I do not remember if using jdm programmer do it in software!!! PICKIT3 do!!!
If using notebook, the jdm programmer not works, because the power of serial... you need a pc with serial port to program device or others programmers or usb programmer...
Which software is using to program device???
And try the Jinzpaul4u schematic and see the doc from microchip (attached pdf).