I think, most questions in your previous post, except for the CFB point, have been already adressed in previous contributions by LvW and myself.
Have the second pole slightly before or behind the unity gain frequency doesn't make a big difference. Of course, with 45° or less phase margin you get serious ringing and large gain peaking. But the constant GWBP concept is based on single pole characteristic and near to 90° phase margin.
The concept is helpful and gives fair bandwidth estimations if you don't apply it to gains of 1 or 2. If you review datasheet sof highspeed OPs, you'll probably find a unity gain bandwidth specified along with the GWB. See e.g. TI OPA354, GWB 100 MHz, UGBW 250 MHz.