I didn't comment yet your attempts to explain the effect of coupled inductors. Reviewing BradtheRad's post, I feel tempted to clarify, that both are looking at the wrong side of the problem.
The coupled output inductor is basically working a a transformer. It couples winding voltages, not currents. Individual currents are summed up to a total magnetizing current for the common core.
But other than in a usual transformer, all winding currents have the same direction (enforced by the rectifier diodes). Each winding can only contribute it's output load current to the magnetization, it can't share the load of another winding.
P.S.: Feedback with coupled inductors is a more practical problem. As said, there will be still a load dependent voltage inbalance due to non-ideal component properties. Mostly, SMPS with coupled outputs have a "main" output voltage with narrowed specification that drives the feedback, resulting in a full-regulated and one or more half-regulated outputs. If you have two symmetrical outputs, using an averaged feedback signal would balance the error.