auxiliary coil feedback control is always going to be rough and ready especially with offline flybacks
...but you only do low voltage.
so you need to increase coupling between aux and secondary by winding them with each other, say.
or you wind secondary in two sections and "sandwich" the aux coil between the two sec halves this will also increase coupling.
you may find that near maximum load the agreement is better.
continuous mode is better coupling given than discontinuos mode.
BUT....i do not understand,.......because at such low voltage , howcome you dont just directly use the secondary to do feedabck???...
..this is your biggest mystery to solve b4 anything else.