Dual Sim Card
It really depends on the Sim Card interface. Most either have a chip select, CS, or command, CMD pin. If the card tristates its I/O bus when CS or CMD is inactive, then all the other pins can be paralleled and you only need a mux on the CS or CMD pin.
If you have to isolate every pin, the best option is to use some MOSFET switches. These are available in IC packages with eight or more switches per package. The switches are bi-directional and the delay through the switch is small enough that you should not require any additional logic. For MOSFET switches look at the Maxim or Analog Devices web sites.