Hi Balamani,
for DDR2 timing analysis, please follow datasheets(processor) timing diagram. you have to map timing delay between clock to DQS, then DQS to DQ. CLK to Address and Command.
If you can share part name/ datasheet of processor. I can guide you in timing budget calculation.
For Crosstalk you have to set minimum acceptable voltage level. I usually measure for 50 mV~100 mV for DDR2/3. In worst case I choose 150 mV.