Now I am a bit baffled. As the characteristic impedance of the system will be 50ohms, I thought the reactance of the DC-blocking capacitor at the working frequency should be at most 5ohms, so the capacitance has to be greater than 3pF at 10GHz. I designed an interdigital capacitor based on AWR Microwave Office simulations and S21 seems to be >-2dB, however, the capacitance of the structure is only about 0.2pF (a realistic value for such a structure after some reading, but still can't wrap my head around the physical processes happening there). Another problem is probably the input impedance of the capacitor, as the exact length of the line connecting it to a transistor really affects the gain of the transistor - this is an oscillator and the capacitor has to be in the feedback loop as there is a tuning voltage in the feedback filter and that has to be decoupled from the DC voltages of the biasing network.
So the question would be: how is it that a really small capacitance provides good transmission and is there a way to match its input impedance as we would during a filter design?