when using charge pump pll's, rc gives a pole and zero, lowpass just gives pole. you need the zero to counteract the Rout-C pole of the pump, and then your pump/filter combo acts like a true integrator. I'm not sure you can stabilize your loop (without HEAVILY overdaming) without the R-C pair. Trust the zero!
but anyway, let's move on to your chip. this one is a bare-bones, NOT CHARGE PUMPED pll building block. the phi outputs are basically the outputs of the d-flip flops that are used as phase frequency detectors. the PD output goes high or low depending on the phase frequency detect. you can use the PDout pin to essentially implement a CP-PLL but it is not a true CP because it is not pumping constant currents. i like it, i think you should continue to use this chip unless you really NEED charge pumping. for your circuit, i think this chip will suit you just fine.
ps - do you know how phase frequency detectors work? there are a million articles on google if you dont. basically, if referece clock rises and VCO has not yet risen, output goes high to speed up VCO. if VCO rises first while ref clock has not risen, output goes low until ref clock rises. in essence, the edge to edge difference is integrated every cycle until the difference is zero. now your VCO = Refclock.
the pin you want to use is the PDout pin, like the circuit shown in figure 3. This pin goes high if VCO is too slow, goes low if VCO is too fast, and is Hi-Z if you are in lock. Therefore it's perfect for charge pumping. The first resistor (touching pdout) converts the 0 or Vcc signal at PDout to a current. This current is fed to (or pulled from) the RC loop filter.
So let's say your VCO is 5MHZ at 1V. Upon startup, the loop filter is at 0, so the PDOUT pin will be almost always high, bringing the filter up with a current of Vcc-Vfilter/Rout where Rout is the resistor touching the PD pin. As the VCO frequency approaches the reference frequency (assuming any dividers of course) the "high time" of the PDout pin gets thinner and thinner until it is no longer pulling up. If VCO is too fast, PDout will give thin slices of GND to pull down the VCO voltage in a similar manner.
Let me know your progress (post here for all to learn!). This chip may not be a true CPPLL but it's close enough to get all the benefits. You just need to cleverly choose your resistor - good luck!