Whatever clamping method you use, the "standoff" voltage must be lower than the transceiver "absolute maximum voltage", so something is wrong with your requirements.
For TVS diodes and varistors, the maximum clamping voltage depends on the current, and can be much higher than the standoff voltage. If the bus margin allows for series resistors, they can be used to reduce the maximum current, which also reduces the clamping voltage.
It is also possible to have a "series" protection.
I have used two N-channel MOSFETs between bus and transceiver, with a gate voltage set so the MOSFET is normally fully on, but switch off when the drain (= CAN bus) voltage goes over a certain value. The sources are connected to the CAN transceiver. You still need some TVS diodes or similar to clamp the MOSFET Vgs and Vds voltages, but the maximum bus voltage can be higher than the maximum transceiver voltage.