4. I couldn't make your demonstration work by folowing the link, I got a circuit, but it appears to be the standard one on the website.. but that is probably me.
Yes, the first link brings up the default circuit. Evidently with that one open, it prevents an incoming link from loading.
It should be possible to run my simulation by closing all the falstad.com windows, then clicking the link:
https://tinyurl.com/bt4ujs4
5. I just want to test my understanding of the operation:-
When the side/headlights are turned on the sidemarkers illuminate via the NC relay contacts.
Regardless of the state of the sidemarkers (on or off) when the Indicator switch is turned on the initial pulse runs through the diode to the transistor switching the current to energise the relay and making the Normally Open (NO) contacts - the indicator circuit then operates as normal.
The capacitor holds charge during the "off" cycle of the indicator , it cannot discarge through the diode therefore the changeover relay stays connected and indicators flash the side repeater as normal. When the indicator is turned off the "On" pulse ceases, the capacitor discharges dropping the relay which then returns the contacts to the NC position.
I cannot see any way of sorting the two sides issue other than duplicating the circuit - but the componets are cheap so its no big deal.
Yes, you're up to speed, I can tell.
I made several assumptions, such as which components are closer to ground, etc.
You may need to rearrange things to suit your vehicle. The simulator will let you do this, to see what will work as far as making left and right circuits cooperate.
6. Would adding a variable resistor between the transistor activation pin (can't remember what its called) and ground enable this to be adjusted so that it stays on long enough between indicator pulses but releases the relay relatively quickly after the indicator is turned off?
Yes, you will need to adjust values to obtain the right amount of delay. I inserted a basic peak detector (or sample-and-hold). The capacitor will probably need to be a much larger value (on the order of 470 uF to 2000 uF).
Or you can use a 555. Or you can use a mosfet. Etc.
Finally, are there "standard" component numbers or values that you could recommend for this circuit please... the relay is easy and you give a value for the capacitor. In my day timers were operated by 555 ICs (which I see are still around!) and Amps were driven by 3055 transistors.
The transistor can be general purpose. It must handle sufficient current to turn on the relay coil. I believe a small signal type is adequate. 2N3904, 2N2222, etc.
At first a 12V relay coil seems appropriate. However it depends on whether the transistor can deliver sufficient voltage/current. If not then a 9V relay may be called for.
As to what capacitor value to use, it will depend on how fast it discharges through the transistor, and through the relay coil. This will require experimentation. (I used a small uF value in the simulation, to reduce the wait.)