Typically, a properly terminated CAN bus using standard termination will indicate approximately 60Ω when measured between the H and L lines with a DMM with the CAN bus and all nodes powered down, due to the two 120Ω in parallel.
You can use method and a DMM, to test for internal termination of individual nodes when not connected to the bus and in an unpowered state.
A properly terminated node would normally indicate a resistance of approximately 120Ω, while an unterminated mode would normally indicate a significantly higher resistance, typically in the 25kΩ to 40kΩ range, although some can indicate a much higher value.
Several of the USB to CAN bus adapters I've encounter are terminated by default and typically offer the ability to disable the termination if required, while an equal number offer no method of internal termination.
Therefore, do not assume any node you attach to the CAN bus is terminated or unterminated, use a DMM to determine its state before attaching it and plan accordingly.
Nodes which are terminated and the termination unable to be disable will, of course, need to be located at the ends of the CAN bus topology.
Resist the temptation to follow the advice of some forum threads to use a single 60Ω termination for CAN bus of short length, that particular advice is erroneous and does not adhere to CAN bus standards.
I have implemented many short CAN buses on the bench, several shorter then 5 feet, using proper termination methods without any issues.
However, you should be aware there is a minimum distance between node required for reliable operation, the distance is largely dependent on the capacitive load of the nodes and the distributed capacitance of the CAN bus media.
Critical Spacing of CAN Bus Connections
Although, in the case of a CAN bus comprised of three nodes spaced over 5 feet it typically shouldn't be an issue.
In most cases the user manual or datasheet of the node device will indicate the termination options of the node device.
Have you examined the manual/datasheets of both the Axiomatic ECU and CAN controller/actuator?
Also, a simple email or phone call to the manufacturers of the node devices can usually provide insight to the termination issue.
What bit rate are you attempting to utilize on the CAN bus?
I would suggest initially using a moderate bit rate until you succeed in establishing communications between the nodes and then increase it to your required rate.
BigDog