from
https://e-magnetica.pl/enamelled_wire
"Typical electric strength of the enamel is around 170-220 V/μm, which is why a relatively thin layer of enamel can withstand significant voltage. For example, the 0.375 mm wire with the cracked enamel shown above has a voltage breakdown of 4.35 kV despite the enamel thickness being only 0.0275 mm."
remember there is enamel of both wires, so the insulation thickness at your crossover is about twice as thick.
its not the diameter of the wire that matters, its the insulation thickness.
i would also suggest that magnet wire does not generally have 1800 V from turn to turn.
if the coil has 10 turns and 1000 V across it, then there's only 100 V from turn to turn, etc
i spent a lot of time doing reliability analysis. i suggest you check what the derating
of the various enamels used for magnet wire
i think the table is correct, mostly on the assumption that its been out there for a while and errors have been corrected, and there's so much data, it was calculated.
if I'm reading the table correctly:
0.2 mm wire has a (grade 1) breakdown, as you said, of 1800 V according to IEC 60317
0.2 mm wire has a (class 0) breakdown of 3800 V according to JIS C3202
0.2 mm (about 32 AWG) wire has a (grade 1) breakdown, according to NEMA MW1000C (inch) of 1020 V
different standards for different views on safety.