thanks for the replys
I found the answer.. Assura is .. well its different.
so heres what i did.
1 in the LVS window click View Additional Functions
2 the window will drop down to expose 6 options you can click on. click on "Use joinableNet Function
3 a button will appear just to the right of the radio button called " Modify JoinableNet Function..." Click it
4 a form will open up, its name is JoinableNet Commands
5 there are 2 fields, on the left is cell names, here you add your top level cell your cheking. lets call it CellA.
6 the right hand feild is for nets you want connected on the layout side (not schematic) lets say I add AVDD AVSS (no comma or collins)
7 just below the 2 fields is a "Add to Command list (below)" button, click it.
your done. when you run lvs, the nodes you intered in the right hand field are now vertually connected in layout. so in this example, when LVS runs on CellA, if you have multiple AVDD and AVSS pins, LVS will see them as connected.